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Simple Tricks to Help Your Partner Reach Orgasm

Orgasm is the time of greatest sexual pleasure for both men and women. It is that pleasant moment where you cannot control your body. When all the parts that compose it seem to sink into a wave of ecstasy. Who has lived it knows how to recognize it perfectly. Whether you have experienced it or not, here are a series of tricks that will help you develop your sexuality to the fullest.

Enjoy the Present Moment

sexual pleasureClassic advice, but very difficult to get for many women is to “let go.” It consists of thinking and feeling everything that is happening at present, regardless of the pending tasks or the discussion we had in the morning, or two days ago, with the neighbor.

Many people want to have everything in control in their lives, which prevents them from enjoying all the sensations that their bodies provide. To internalize this trick and be able to translate it into your sex life, start right now. Yes, right now. Whatever you are doing, worry only about that and be attentive to smells, sensations, perceptions, and live it as it is presented. This is what mindfulness is based on.

Foreplay and Postures

The goal of sexual intercourse is to enjoy yourself, whether or not you reach orgasm. For this reason, you should focus on an erotic type of “walk” than “finalist.” Instead of going directly to the penetration, it is convenient that go through the rest of the body with caresses, kisses, touching.

In foreplay, the couple can do whatever comes to mind – kiss the mouth, the neck, the belly; caress the breasts, back, legs; sucking the feet, the nipple. It is advisable that licking or touching the genitals is in the background during this phase. When you decide to go to intercourse or penetration, you can use postures that make it easier to reach orgasm.

Communication With Your Partner

Finally, the star point of any relationship is communication. It does not matter if you are very good in bed, if you had a wonderful family meal last weekend with your relatives or if you are planning what to do next year with the reform of the house. With no communication, the relationship will sooner or later suffer.

For this reason, try to establish a moment to ask yourself how the day has gone. Share your concerns but also the joys and successes you get. Go out to celebrate or support the other in case they need it.

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Ways To Improve Your Sex Life

When a relationship is still new, the couple tends to spend more intimate times together. They cannot get their hands off each other. With time and many years of being together, they sexual life deteriorates. Sex becomes something that is performed as a duty with certain styles at certain places and certain days. It takes an effort to make a choice to improve your sex life.

Tips on how to improve your sex life

Nurturing your relationship

hugging coupleThis involves being loyal and supportive to your partner. The couple should have an interest in each other and care about each other’s well-being. Let your partner feel cared for, and they will reciprocate the same to you. They should also enjoy each other’s company which provides special moments for bonding and create beautiful memories. Having such will help you improve your sex lives despite being together for very long.

Enjoy having fun

Though sex is a serious matter, it should be laced with some fun too. The couple should not limit them. They should spend more time exploring their fantasies together like for instance do dress ups, watch some little pornography together to spice up their sex experiences and even shop for sex toys together. More to that, the couple can discuss together the new things they would want to try then work to accomplish them. They should encourage each other to share new ideas of the things they want.

Being open

The couple should create time to talk about the things they like and those they don’t. They should know each other’s body and how they respond to certain things like touch. One can also go ahead and direct their partner where they want to be touched and where they do not want to be touched.

Agree that it does not have to go all the way

Not every session of romancing should lead to sexual intercourse. Sometimes all people want is just to relax and have fun. Intimacy is not about having sex; rather a couple can decide to cuddle, touch and pet. They can also take a shower together, cook their favorite foods together and also give each other a sensual massage. Other ways of being intimate include snuggling together or watching your favorite movies together. These too go a long way in improving the couple’s sex life.

Flirt with each other

couple kissingFlirting is fun if it is done within the relationship and not with other people outside the relationship. One can be sexy when they go out together. The lady can also dress provocatively to remind themselves of the chemistry they felt when they were beginning to date. Each one of them should make an effort to keep fit and look good for their partner. This will ensure you continue feeling good about each other.

A healthy sex life may be interrupted by many other factors such as pressure from work, health-related issues and even the arrival of children. A couple should make it part of their life not to allow the sparkle in the sex life fades away. They should find time for each other to create more intimate moments together.

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